Relationships & Advice:Who Takes The Blame?

June 19, 2010

Okay give ya’ll opinions on this, It’s this great couple their relationship is going strong and everything it’s not weak at all but one person out the relationship wants ya’ll opinions on this… “Me & my soulmate relationship is great but I wanna know this WHO TAKES THE BLAME, my mate says I always blame them for things for example if we don’t speak in like 2/3 days they will say I haven’t spoken to you in a while and I would say I wonder why, somebody ain’t been calling me or when they say I’ll call you back and never call back I always throw it in my mate face all the time I don’t do it intentionally sometimes it seems like I do but it’s the truth but I stop to think if the shoe were on the other foot I wouldn’t like it neither. Do you think I should just cut the slack cuz it’s not really a big deal or address the fact everytime? Either way my relationship is fine I just want some opinions.”

Fetish Friday:SEX

June 18, 2010

So we all know SEX is a big thing to people which many can’t get enough of when it comes to SEX we have freaks, sex fiends, dick pleasers & pussy eaters. So I wanna know what’s that ONE position you just love when having sex, how do you start it off, what do you love having your partner do to you when having sex, do you use exotic items if so why and whats good about it, if you couldn’t have sex anymore how would you survive without it and what song would you use for that romantic time? Read the rest of this entry »

Advice Question: When Is It Okay To Wear Plaid?

June 16, 2010

2 day is the day that we actually kick off our relationships and advice segment of the site. “ANY QUESTIONS, THOUGHTS, AND SEXUAL PREFERENCE IS WELCOMED”. The question that I’m working with today is about fashion. The reader (we will not use the names of the person sending the question…that’s so not fair) wants to know when is it appropriate to wear plaid. It’s always appropriate to wear plaid! It doesn’t just work for one season, it can actually be worn all year round. The real issue is how to wear it. Lady’s never wear plaid pants  because that just looks plain tacky. Very short plaid shorts with a nice plain colored shirt is nice and accessories such as purses and shoes could also be worn but do not wear plaid boots, those are even more tacky than the pants. Also remember that when wearing plaid less is more. You wouldn’t want to over due it. Do not mix patterns and colors together, the design of the plaid piece will clash with the color and it just makes everything look out of proportion. Check out some examples below.




NEW on DefGlam: Relationships & Advice

June 11, 2010

Holding Hands
We are adding something new to DefGlam starting this week!

Every week we will be answering your relationship questions (any aspect of relationships), as well as, any other advice you may need dealing with life in general. We will also post inspirational and helpful stories for you. If you have your own love story or inspirational story you can share it with us as well. Don’t be shy!!!

We hope that you enjoy this section of the site, as it will allow our readers to be more interactive with us! All sexual orientations are welcome & encouraged!!!

All questions will be posted anonymously.

To ask a question please email either Tyger Lily or Teonny Spears: Tyger Lily:
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